From Basics to Bots: My Weekly AI Engineering Adventure-34

Training a Language Model - Learning by Making Mistakes

Posted by Afsal on 10-Apr-2026

Hi Pythonistas!

So far, we know: 

How text is generated
How Transformers work

Now the obvious question:

Where does all this knowledge come from?

Answer: Training. And a lot of mistakes.

Training Is Not Teaching.The model is not taught facts.No one explains grammar.

Instead:

  • The model guesses the next token
  • We check if it’s wrong
  • We correct it slightly
  • Repeat this billions of times.

The Training Data

At its core, training data is just text.

  • Books
  • Articles
  • Code
  • Conversations
  • No labels.
  • No explanations

The Loss Function - Measuring "How Wrong"

Every prediction is scored.

If the correct next token had: 

  • High probability → small loss
  • Low probability → big loss

Backpropagation - Blame Goes Backward

Once loss is calculated:

  • Gradients flow backward
  • Every parameter gets a tiny correction
  • Important idea: Recent layers adjust first
  • Earlier layers adjust indirectly

This is how the entire network learns.

Gradient Descent - Tiny Steps, Huge Journey

Weights are updated using gradient descent.
Too big a step → training explodes
Too small → training crawls

Learning rate controls this balance.
Training is millions of tiny nudges.

Epochs, Batches, Steps (Quick Intuition)
Batch → small chunk of data

Step → one update

Epoch → full pass over data

Large models may never see a full epoch.Data is that big.

Overfitting Is Always Lurking
If the model memorizes: Training loss drops

Regularization, dropout, and validation help.
But scale itself is a powerful regularizer.

Training Is Expensive

  • Massive compute
  • Huge memory
  • Long training time

That’s why most of us don’t train from scratch.But understanding this is crucial.

What I Learned This Week 

  • Models learn by predicting and failing
  • Loss measures how wrong
  • Gradients push weights to improve
  • Training is slow, incremental, and costly
  • No understanding - just optimization

What's Coming Next

Next week we will learn about fine tuning a model